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Long form essays on building love with intention, straight from the Relationship MBA system.

Build and sustain
Your relationship needs a quarterly review
Companies review what matters every quarter. Most couples never do. Here is the gentle, honest version.
Jul 22, 2026 · 7 min read

Find the right partner
How to find the right partner (without leaving it to luck)
Finding the right partner is a search problem, and search problems reward method. Write the standard first. Then let it make decisions with you.
Jul 21, 2026 · 7 min read

Work on yourself
Self-improvement for dating: do the 80/20 first
Before you optimize who you choose, grow what you bring. The highest-return work is boring, cheap and completely under your control.
Jul 20, 2026 · 7 min read
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